Question: some insecurity issues?

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Haha I read this, and I thought, wow, I'm not the only one. I also used to be fat, and now i am muscular. Im not all that big, I have some size, but i have a pretty great build. I have actually had plenty of girls ask me to take off my shirt for them, them thinking I have great abs. I reall don't, I mean you can kinda see some abs, but it's not a full blown six pack or anything. I tell them I don't have abs, and they are just like I don't care I just wanna see. They still love it lol. Nothing to be ashamed of bro, there are plenty of other people in this world looking much more flabby than you. And it probably isn't as bad as you think, and you've been bodybuilding too, we always look at every single flaw we have and amplify them, because we expect perfection from ourselves. Take the shirt off for the girls, show off what you've worked hard for. Don't let it bother you that your abs aren't all that great. Girls like confidence too. Btw ever since I've been eating a fruit or vegetable with every meal and eating exactly every 2 hours, my abs are really starting to come along, you should try it. Good luck bro, keep me posted on what happens.





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